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Naikan — the Japanese art of self-reflection

Nicholas Kemp
4 min readOct 15, 2022

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A self-actualisation journaling practise.

Kanji for Naikan — Image By the author.

Introspection

Naikan is a structured self-reflection technique. Nai means ‘inside’ and kan means ‘looking’; therefore, Naikan translates to ‘inside looking’ or ‘introspection’. The technique could be described as the Japanese art of self-reflection, of ​seeing oneself with the mind’s eye. Grounded in Pure Land Buddhist tradition, it offers a clear and usable self-relation method to practising gratitude, and can serve as both a spiritual and a psychotherapeutic practice.

In short, Naikan is used to increase our awareness of the often unnoticed compassion that others have towards us, as well as the innate self-centeredness of our human nature. People doing Naikan ask themselves three questions in relation to a family member or some other person during particular times in their lives.

The Three Naikan Questions

The three Naikan self-reflection questions are:

  • What did this person give to me?
  • What did I return to this person?
  • What troubles did I cause this person?

One Week Vs Daily

There are two types of Naikan: one-week and daily. The former is done continually for a…

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Nicholas Kemp
Nicholas Kemp

Written by Nicholas Kemp

Author, Japanologist and founder of Ikigai Tribe. 📕 Interested in ikigai? Read my book IKIGAI-KAN: Feel a Life Worth Living. https://ikigaikan.com

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